In a relationship with just love and mutual respect is just fine but if you don’t look at the other things too like financial issues, children, and general wishes for life then in my opinion you are living in a fairy tale. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you have to talk about that things every day but it needs to talk about it at least once or twice depending on the type of polyamorous relationship you have. In my relationship the big issue that lays ahead for us is children and the problems and issues they may happen having 3 parents instead of two. In most legal aspects one “parent” has to be left out of the equation for obvious reasons that one of the parents isn’t biologically related to the child. You also have to look at the financial future of your family and I strongly believe in the prenuptial agreement of some kind for any couple married or not, polyamorous or not. You don’t want to exit a relationship and have hatred for the other person or people because of money nothing more than money. When you have children and you have hatred for the another person that creates lots of issues for them (the children) later in life, I know this from personal experience. If you go about even in a monogamous relationship without that chat about the good,bad,and ugly you will have great pain and consequences later and you never know until its too late who it will truly effect.
I never thought that I would be that person to tell others about my personal opinion about beliefs, relationships and other things on my mind without being asked first. I found that people don’t know to ask if you keep your personal life very close to the vest. So I decided to leave names out of it and tell people my thoughts to maybe help others going through some of the issues they may be going through in their own private life they keep close to the vest. I’m still trying to learn my way through WordPress so if you have comments, or questions let me know and I will do my best to respond and/or answer anything I can just know I will not answer things about my personal life like names, where I live and things really close to my heart…I hope you get what I mean.
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